求翻译：⑧有切合实际的生活目标。 　　⑨具有从经验中学习的能力，能适应环境的需要改变自己。 　　⑩有良好的人际关系，有爱人的能力和被爱的能力。在不违背社会标准的前提下，能保持自己的个性，既不过分阿谀，也不过分寻求社会赞许，有个人独立的意见，有判断是非的标准。是什么意思？

⑧ a realistic life goals. ⑨ have the ability to learn from experience, can adapt to the environment need to change. ⑩ have good interpersonal skills, have the ability to love and be loved capabilities. Not contrary to the premise of social standards, to maintain their individuality, not too much fla

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⑧Has the realistic life goal. 　　⑨Has ability which studies from the experience, can adapt to the circumstances to need to change oneself. 　　⑩Has the good interpersonal relationship, has spouse's ability and ability which loves.In does not violate the social standard under the premise, can maintain o

⑧ There are realistic life goals. 　　¢Á has the ability to learn from the experience, to adapt to the needs of your environment to change themselves. ⑩ have good interpersonal skills, ability to have the ability to love and be loved. Under the premise of not violating social standards, can keep their

⑧ realistic life goals. 　　¢Á learning ability from experience, can adapt environmental needs change. ⑩ have good interpersonal skills, ability to have the ability to love and be loved. Under the premise of not violating social standards, can keep their personality, neither too much butter or excessi