求翻译：其次，要改变跟孩子的交流方式。小学或者初中的时候，孩子或许还能接受家长的一些说教。到高中阶段，孩子自主意识进一步增强，灌输和说教的教育方式就行不通了。不要再企图做孩子的精神导师，而是要做孩子的知心朋友。不要只是急于了解孩子、为孩子排忧解难，而要向孩子敞开自己的心扉，让孩子了解自己包括自己的苦恼，并真诚跟孩子交流。孩子得到承认和尊重，就不会再拒绝交流，你的观念和孩子的观念就会在交流中交融碰撞，孩子就会在耳濡目染中自觉不自觉地接受你的合理建议，当然家长也会在交流中从孩子那里学到好多。是什么意思？

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Secondly, there is a need to change the way of communication with their children. primary or middle school, when the children of parents who may be able to accept some of the moralizing. The high school stage, the child sense of self-determination to further enhance the approach to education, indoct

Next, must change with child's exchange way.Elementary school or junior middle school's time, perhaps the child also can accept guardian's some rigid theorizings.To the high school stage, the child realized independently further strengthens, instills into the education way which and preached not to

Second, to change the way to communicate with his children. Elementary or junior high school when parents of children you may be able to accept some of the sermon. To high school stage, the child ownership further enhanced, indoctrination and didactic education approach won't work. Do not attempt to

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