求翻译：好男人如果想娶到好女人，还是要主动一些，因为你们毕竟是个男人；好女人如果想嫁个好男人，还是要擦亮眼睛，因为你们往往被你们看到的表象所欺骗是什么意思？

If you want to marry a good man to woman, or to take the initiative, because you are a man after all; good woman if you want to marry a good man, or to keep their eyes open, because you are often deceived by the appearance that you see

If you want to marry a good man or good woman, will have to take the initiative to some men, because you are, after all, a good woman if you want to marry a good man, it is still necessary to keep their eyes open, because you have often been deceived by the symptoms you see

If the good man wants to marry the good woman, wants initiative somewhat, because you are a man after all; If the good woman wants to marry a good man, must sharpen vigilance, because you were often seen by you the representation deceives

Good man if you want to marry a good woman, or do you want to take the initiative, because after all, you are a man good woman if you want to marry a good man, or do you want to remove the scales from one's eyes, because you often you see the appearance of the cheat