求翻译：　　当然，不是每一件事情都必须由自己来选择，也不是每一件事情都可以由自己来主导。所以，在选择积极态度的同时，我们必须保持平和的心态：有勇气改变可以改变的事情，有胸怀接受不可改变的事情，有智慧来分辨两者的不同。是什么意思？

Of course, not everything must come by their own choice, not every thing can be by themselves to lead. Therefore, the choice of a positive attitude, we must maintain the peace of mind: the courage to change things can change, there can not be changed mind to accept things, the wisdom to distinguish

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　　Certainly, is not each matter all must choose by oneself, also is not each matter all may lead by oneself.Therefore, during choice positive attitude, we must maintain the gentle point of view: Has matter which the courage changes may change, has matter which the mind accepts cannot be changed, has

　　Of course, not everything must be selected by themselves, not everything can be dominated by themselves. Therefore, in the choice of a positive attitude at the same time, we must keep the peace of mind: had the courage to change things can change, has in mind to accept unchangeable things, wisdom