求翻译：今天这篇文章给我们展示了一个父母与小孩之间的关系，父母无时无刻不想着怎样来提高小孩的各方面。家长觉得小孩应该学好，第一为小孩自己，再就是为家长了。但小孩往往觉得自己受困，并不自在，不习惯。是什么意思？

Today, this article has shown us the relationship between a parent and a child, parents constantly want to how to improve various aspects of the child. Parents think that children should learn, first for the children themselves, and also for parents. However, children often feel trapped and uncomfortable, not used.