求翻译：我自认为是一个独立比较早的人，我认为让孩子独立的第一条就是不能溺爱，慢慢的让孩子少依靠父母，比如说要什么要自己去争取，不要让他们那么容易得到，小鹰在学习飞翔的时候会经常挨摔的，老鹰只是冷眼看着，因为只有经过千百次的摔打，飞上天空的翅膀才坚硬。是什么意思？

I since think is a independent comparison early of people, I think let children independent of first article is cannot doting, slowly of let children less relies on parents, say to what to own to fight for, don't let they so easy get, small Eagle in learning fly of when will often get fell of, Eagle just cold seeing was, because only after qianbaici of put up with setbacks, fly Shang sky of wings only hard.