求翻译：第三点有些事要放手让他们去做，不要管的太严，要让他们自己去寻找属于自己的路，不要替他们安排，因为你是你，孩子是孩子，他的人生应该让他自己做主。是什么意思？

3rd something you want to allow them to do, forget too strict, to let their own to find his own way, not to arrange for them, because you are you, children are children, his life should make his own shots.