求翻译：时间是药， 八年前我验证过这个问题 ， 我曾经很深爱一个女人， 但是她离开了 ， 我哭过， 我变得冷酷， 现在却又有这样的事情发生了 ， 我极力的挽留， 但是却无法挽回 ， 我不知道我生命里的女人为什么都是这个样子。是什么意思？

Time is a drug, eight years ago, I verified this, I had a deep love of a woman, but she left, I cried, I become cold, but now there is such a thing happened again, I tried to stay, but not to restore, I don't know why women are like this in my life.