求翻译：千辛万苦的在一起，可结果却是吵吵闹闹，我怎么了?导致现在的动手打我，还是我的错吗？我有多少错？婚后的生活没有我想象的那么简单，我想的太简单了，白雪是你年轻还是你就是个笨蛋？是什么意思？

Hardships together, turned out to be noisy, what has happened to me? lead to beat me now, or am I wrong? How much do I have the wrong? Life after marriage not as simple as I thought, I think was too easy, snow-are you young or you are a stupid?