求翻译：　　想结婚，就要找一个能和你心心相印、相辅相携的伴侣。不要因为放纵和游戏而恋爱，不要因为恋爱而影响工作和事业，更不要因一桩草率而失败的婚姻而使人生受阻。感情用事往往会因小失大。是什么意思？

　　Want to get married, it is necessary to find a partner in and your heart, auxiliary phases to be carried. Don't indulge and love of the game, don't fall in love and the impact of the work and career, not to fail due to a hasty marriage life is blocked. Sentimentality often lose.