求翻译：古语说得好；娶妻娶的不要色，择夫重德不重貌：衣冠整洁看外形，心灵纯洁看品行。如果对方是品貌兼备当然是求之不得。假若对方德识才学和容貌不能两全时宁可选择品行端正但容貌平平者，而不要那种容貌出众但品行轻浮之人。我个人认为要杜绝三种择偶倾向。是什么意思？

The old saying goes well; a wife marries not color, optional value not virtue look: dressed and tidy appearance, mind chaste behavior. If the other side is a good image and personality both of course is all that one could wish for. If the other side of German talent and looks when there is no endowment prefer who conduct but looks mediocre, and not the kind of lookers but conduct flirtatious person. I personally think that to put an end to three spouse preference.