求翻译：从上述讨论，我强烈相信父母应该帮助他们的孩子是独立的通过指示他们用一个适当的方式而不是计划和考虑一切为他们。 它是决定他们的未来和命运的孩子，因此与他们的父母的一些适当的指示独立地居住他们是有利的。是什么意思？

From the above discussion, I strongly believe that parents should help their children to be independent by indicating whether they use and consider an appropriate way and not plan everything for them. It is to decide their future and destiny of the child, appropriate instructions and their parents to live independently and they are beneficial.