求翻译：怎么说呢，有时候，一些大人会说我们很优秀，而我们有时候并不能分辨出来那是不是正的。当局者迷，旁观者清，我觉得我们应该对自己要有一清醒的认知度，不能轻易的就相信他人的话，因为有时候他人的话与我们现实差距太大了。会使我们承受不了。是什么意思？

How can I say, sometimes, some adults will say that we very good, and we sometimes cannot tell it is not positive. Men are known by the company they keep, an onlooker sees most of the game, I think we should have a sober recognition for himself, can't believe what others easily, because sometimes the gap between our reality and others are too big. We can't afford.