求翻译：发生矛盾时，你与对方争吵和沉默带来的结果是不同的，前者带来针锋相对，后者则是彼此无视，不知道当你遇到时你会如何做？是什么意思？

Between, silence brings you quarrel with each other and the result is different, and brought the former one, the latter is ignoring each other, how do you do when you don't know when you meet?