求翻译：I can not image what will happen if I make up my mind to marry him someday.I wonder why parents regard money as the standard of mearsuring marriage.Does it mean I am an idearist?I turned to my brother and hoped to get some comfort and understanding.But to my surprise,he was on my mother’s side and said,"you love him very much and do not want to apart with him, but the real life will urge you to choose another life。”His words added to my difficulty to my understanding of life.是什么意思？

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