求翻译：you have your first girlfriend zhat can not be accepted by your family ,maybe zhis can not give you zhe biggest injury for maybe wo all Looking forward to zhe next one, and do not accept zhis girl may live with me for zhe last of my live. she have some shortcoming zhat i can not bear, maybe zhe next one is zhe better. zhis is zhe mind of most of us. so zhe part end. you do not pay more sad for zhis. soon you may recognize a new girl . maybe zhis is not a better one from zhe outside. but after some meeting, you may find zhe one is zhe person you want to marry. but things are not come as what we want. one day she have got zhe cancer , she tell you zhe zhings, you may feel going to hell. finally you and she end in peaceful way . after experiencing zhe two zhings, zhe same end, you maybe not hurted. But zhere is a balance in zhe life , you may recognize zhe third 、fourth etc until you meet her ,zhe one who hurt you zhe highest. people often say when you are happy you may only focus on zhe current.not care zhe other zhings or you may think about zhe current life zhat zhe girl leave you have .you may curse zhat zhe wrost life she are suffering .friends are as well. you are zhe good person . but please look at other person from zhe different angle. no one wish be your enemies or friends. but you suffer yourselves. wo have saw a young woman be a young man's girlfriend for many years ,he treat her very well. giving her a lot of money .walking on zhe street with her after he has finished his job. buying many gifts for her. for he is a rich man. zhe young woman is not worse zhan he as well for she also has a good family .three years later, he marry her. but who know zhe truzh behind zhe outside . zhey have a large house and a expensive car , working easy . zhe young man will not put his love on his wife only. he like zhe bar. and zhe young girl better. as you know ,women are stupid when zhey are in love .what can she get from zhe marriage . nothing. maybe wo should care about other things like love. you know是什么意思？

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