求翻译：今天家里发生了争吵，哎，生活了二十年，怎么还是没有默契呢？静下来想想又觉得没什么大不了的，生活本来就会出现各种各样的问题。重要的是怎样去解决它，所以开开心心的，共同接受生活对我们一家人的考验！是什么意思？

Today home to quarrel broke, Hey, life for 20 years, why not understanding is this? Calm down and think and think no big deal, life is all kinds of problems can occur. How important is to deal with it, so happily, accepted test of life for our family!