求翻译：慢慢才知道很多东西是可遇而不可求的，很多东西只能拥有一次；慢慢才知道人的性格可以差异如此之大；慢慢才知道两个天天在一起的人不一定是朋友，有可能什么都不是；慢慢才知道手机是别人有事找你时用的，并不是为交流感情的；慢慢才知道快乐常常来自回忆，而痛苦常常来自于回忆与现实的差距是什么意思？

Slowly only know many things is can case and not seeking of, many things only has a times; slowly only know people of character can differences so of large; slowly only know two every day in together of people does not necessarily is friends, has may what are not; slowly only know phone is others something found you Shi with of, is not for Exchange feelings of; slowly only know happy often from memories, and pain often from Yu memories and reality of gap