求翻译：相反，把别人看轻了的人，得先称称自己能有多重，以微笑和宽容的心面对现实，给自己定个目标，让梦想离你更进一些是什么意思？

Instead, those who belittle others, had to weigh themselves can have multiple, with a smile and a graceful heart to face the reality, set a goal for yourself, let the dream goes away