求翻译：不能把自己吹得有多牛，而是自己一定要给自己争口气，一切掌握在自己手中，相反，把别人看轻了的人，得先称称自己能有多重，以微笑和宽容的心面对现实，给自己定个目标，让梦想离你更进一些是什么意思？

Not blowing yourself how cattle, but he must fight for their own breath, all in their own hands, on the contrary, those who belittle others, had to weigh themselves can have multiple, with a smile and a graceful heart to face the reality, set a goal for yourself, let the dream goes away