求翻译：中国人一般握手而不拥抱，第一次做客要带点礼物。吃饭时声音不要太大。吃完饭后最好不要留太久。以便打扰主人休息是什么意思？

Chinese General handshake and not embrace, guests to bring some gifts for the first time. Eat not too loudly. Meal is best not to stay too long. To disturb the host a rest