求翻译：这就是所谓的付出一生，如果你爱我，如果你爱我，你就会如此地折磨我，话题一顿扯，到头来，是我小题大做，说实话，这是爱吗？是什么意思？

This devotion is the so-called life, if you love me, if you love me, you would be so to me, topics for a tear, in the end, is I a fuss, to be honest, this is the love?