求翻译：你们总埋怨我为什么不要孩子，可你们有没有真正把我当做你们的家人为我想过。你们心爱的儿子现在根本连一个称职的老公都做不到，怎么做一个父亲？难道让我养着两个孩子？是什么意思？

Why don't you always blame me kids, can you ever really your families for me as I thought. Your beloved son is now even a good husband has to do, how to do a father? Don't let me raise two children?